“According to the Society of Women Engineers, in 2018, women made up only 13% of all engineers.” - is your team “with lots of women” an exception?

“A host of troubling studies now show that we pay a heavy social and even professional penalty when we act as aggressively as men do. (…)” - are your perceptions different because you're a man?

Most of the questions you ask are in the story itself, where she backs up her personal point of view with studies and statistics.